Name: 12 rules for life-an antidote to chaos
Author: Jordan B. Peterson
Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd.
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About the author
Jordan B. Peterson born in June in 1962 is a Canadian psychologist and a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto.
In Canada, he supposedly criticized the legislation for the use of transgender pronouns.
Some even called him a “transphobe” and he has some social justice warriors chasing him like a village mob chasing Frankenstein’s monster.
Yet after that, he went viral and he inspired millions with his enthusiasm and a quite unique look on life.
12 rules for life – an antidote to chaos
I´ll try to keep it spoiler-free to the best of my ability and draw out a few notes to help you “paint” a clearer picture.
The book is divided into 12 rules each with a rich story.
On a neural level, it will change how people see you.
Youll get treated better, have better chances with finding a partner, increasing your serotonin level and you will be less likely to fall into the pit of substance abuse, getting cancer, heart disease, etc.
What I got here was that you determine your values and the direction you are heading so that you treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping. Hard?Yes. But having a vague idea, having a part of the plan in your head is better than none.
Check out who you hang out with. Are they pushing you to become better?
Do they make you smile and want the best for you?
If not then reconsider hanging out with them, as stated in the New Testament, by Jim Rohn and many others you become who you hang around with.
We are unique on one and multiple levels.
And what I got here is not to compare yourself with others but with who you were yesterday.
Let’s say you are in the gym and you don’t see progress by constantly looking at others but by looking at yourself.
This rule is about parenting skills.
Here the author suggests before we criticize the world that we should stop doing the things we know are wrong.
I liked this one, pursue meaning, not pleasure.
Peterson is opposed to being expedient.
He came to this conclusion by a longer analysis of Nietzsche, Dostojevski, the Bible and many more.
If there is no meaning to your life you can make one.
Be honest, cause dishonesty will always come back to you in one way or the other.
Here it’s about truly listening to others assuming they know something you don’t.
Don’t let yourself get in the way of attaining what can be vital information that can benefit you.
Be precise in your speech.
Let’s say that something is bothering you and you don’t go and speak to your doctor because of the fear of what it “might be”.
If you don’t know what it is you’ll assume the worst while in reality, it may be nothing at all.
Express it or it will come out as something far worse.
Let me say it like this.
At a young age, boys test the limits of their bikes, cars, skateboards as well as their own abilities as drivers, how much they can stay in control in a chaotic situation.
When they push against teachers, parents or any authority figure they push to see if there is any true authority that can be relied on in case of a catastrophe.
Weakness didn’t expel them from the classroom it was the strength.
Simple moments like petting a cat on the street may come from time to time if we pay attention.
Why? Its moments like that give both sides a smile, make a day brighter and give you a break from the everyday absurdity.
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